Brooklyn Dodgers’ Jackie Robinson, the first Black man to play Major League Baseball, faced venom nearly everywhere he traveled during his first year in the big leagues—fastballs at his head, spikings on the bases, and brutal epithets from opposing dugouts and stadium crowds.
During one game in Boston, the taunts and racial slurs reached a peak. In the midst of all the adversity, another Dodger teammate, Pee Wee Reese, a white infielder, called timeout. He walked from his position at shortstop toward Robinson at second base, put his arm around him, and faced the crowd. The fans grew quiet. Reese later said, “Jackie is my friend.” Robinson later commented, “That arm around my shoulder saved my career.”
Friendship is easy when life is smooth, but its true test comes in times of hardship, sickness, loneliness, and adversity.
In Luke 5:18-19, we see a powerful example of true friendship. Four men carried their paralyzed friend on a mat to Jesus, refusing to let obstacles stop them. They were loyal, determined, and resolute. The crowd was too large, but instead of giving up, they found another way—tearing through the roof to bring their friend to the Lord.
How many friends do you have like that? How many times have people said, “I’m here for you,” yet disappeared when you needed them most? Some promise to pray for you but never do. Others hear but don’t listen. Sadly, many who claim to be friends really aren’t. Ever been there? I certainly have, and it hurts.
Proverbs 18:24 reminds us, “A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.”
True friends don’t just offer words—they take action. They lift you up in prayer, call you, serve you, check in on you, share a meal to spend time with you, stand by you in trials and hardships, and fight for you when you are too weak to fight for yourself. Do you have a friend like that? Better yet, are you a friend like that to others?
As Rick Warren famously said:
“It’s not about you!”
Listen closely: Like these four men, Jesus Himself is the ultimate friend, never leaving you nor forsaking you. But He also calls you to be this kind of friend to others. Maybe you can’t be a “mat carrier,” but are you willing to carry someone else’s burden, even when it’s inconvenient? Do you intercede for them by truly bringing their needs before God? Or is it just idle words, lip service, and empty promises?
“Love IS action.”
I challenge and encourage you today to strive to be the kind of friend who doesn’t just speak about love—but lives it out.
